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How To Please A Women - Cure Premature Ejaculation & Last Longer In Bed

Do you have a “premature ejaculation” problem?

premature ejaculation problemLast Friday we had an interesting discussion at the swinger club. We were talking about how many man have the “premature ejaculation” problem. This can be a bit of a pain in the ass … if you are into swinging where you need to please at least two women per night.

So as the discussion went on we discover how Nick from that couple we meet (and fuck) every now and then … how he solved the same problem. And I can tell you he REALLY solved his problem good. He is now one of the longer lasting studs I have met (and fucked with).

He was explaining that he had serious issues with premature ejaculation but he came across this guide that explained him how to completely cure this problem. Not only he does not have this problem anymore … but he is now one of the best lovers I ever had (besides my Hubby, of course). 

How to last longer in bed?

So I asked to send me the link to this Cure premature ejaculation guide because I would post it here so you guys can read it too.  :)  So if any of you guys have the same problem – grab your chance here and get rid of this. As a women I will tell you that this is really important. We like to be fucked hard and if you can’t last more than 5 min … well … that’s a shame. Especially if you are in the swinging lifestyle. 

Good luck. (And if any of you guys get over that problem completely … give me a shout.) 

Christine, Swinger Club Map

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SHOULD YOU TRICK YOUR WIFE INTO GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB?

Going to a swingers club with your wife? Is this an event you have been planning for months, perhaps even years? For your twelfth wedding anniversary, which is quickly approaching, you promised your bride a very special evening out that she will long remember. You were married not long after she graduated high school and you and your wife have been a couple for 14 years now. She had a very religious upbringing and has only been with one single man in her life — you. You and your wife have a great home and two adorable children.

As the years have passed you believe that sex between you and your wife has grown stale and unexciting…almost predicable. To add a little bit of spice to your life, maybe lately you have been spending time online for hours at a time looking at adult sites and fantasizing. It doesn’t take long before you discover the world of swinging and you are absolutely enthralled by it. Sexual encounters without commitments — how great is that? It certainly sounds like a better option than cheating and dealing with a costly divorce, which could cost you so much that you have worked for in life.

                                    The real question is:

Can you stand the thought of seeing the wife you love — the mother of your children — performing oral sex or maybe even going all the way right in front of you with full intercourse? You consider your feelings to see if it’s something you could really handle. You surprise yourself by discovering that the thought doesn’t bother you in the least. In fact, it totally turns you on! Not only do you want to see her with another man, but you really desire to see her with another woman too.

You spend several months looking on swingers websites studying the swingers lifestyle and then you get up the nerve to ask your wife about what she thinks about the two of you visiting a swingers club. You brace yourself for her reply as she merely stares at you blankly and says, “No way! That’s gross! You’re sick!”

That is what she said eight months ago. But you know your wife all too well. You know that even though she is against the idea, that once she tries it, she is likely to really like it. The only thing you need to do is to figure out how to get her to a swingers club without her knowing where the two of you are going. Your anniversary, it just so happens, is a perfect excuse to take her out on a date and then divert to a swingers club.

Your wife thinks you are taking her to a romantic evening out, perhaps a nice dinner somewhere and then a little dancing. You even bought her a beautiful new dress for your special evening out.

You both have dinner together and then all is revealed when you take her to the club. Your wife is very excited at first because she thinks it’s just a great dance club. After just a few minutes though, your wife notices a few of the female dancers stripping their clothes off. In fact, quite a few of them are stripping down. You and your wife overhear someone say that there is a jacuzzi in the back of the club. Many exciting images are happening all around you and your wife; things neither of you have ever seen in person before. You see two women making out. Some of the women are completely naked while others are scantily dressed. “What kind of club have you brought me to?” your wife asks, with a look of confusion. You reply that it’s a swingers club and that you wanted to surprise her by bringing her here. Her look of confusion changes to one of disgust. “Take me home right now!” she demands. “You’re sleeping on the couch tonight, pal!”

It isn’t a very good idea to try to trick your wife into going to a swingers club with you. In fact, doing so is very deceiving and can lead to a lot of distrust in the future. Remember what Mahoney did to his superior officers in Police Academy by tricking them into going to the Blue Oyster Bar? You don’t want that kind of reaction. Couples who are successful swingers must be able to trust each other completely and be able to communicate openly about anything and everything. If you attempt to trick your partner into joining the swingers lifestyle without her approval, it could backfire tragically on you, putting an end to your swinging ambitions forever.

There are many husbands who have the idea that just because they have had a discussion with their wives about the possibility of having an extra person join them in the bedroom that they have essentially been given the green light to make it happen. Men, make sure your wife approves 100 percent before you bring home “Dave,” “Ricky,” or even “Sally” to have some adult fun with you and your wife. Be sure she knows it wasn’t just some fantasy you were sharing with her. Be sure she knows you really mean it. There really should never be any “surprises” with this type of thing. You should always involve your wife with the planning and coordination of bringing any extra partners into yours and your wife’s sex lives.
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VALENTINE’S DAY SWINGER CRUISE SPECIAL

VALENTINE’S DAY SWINGER

 

Bliss Cruise is offering a savings up to $300 per couple on select cabins* through Valentine’s Day.

Nothing says I love you like the gift of a swinger cruise package for your special someone aboard one of the World’s Best Cruise Ship, Celebrity Silhouette, November 29 – December 6, 2015. The 5 Star Luxury cruise ship takeover is in fact clothing optional. What’s more? Great features such as fine dining, stunning views and the fact that it is the only swinger cruise in 2015.

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The Celebrity Silhouette was recently voted the #1 Top Mega Ship in the world by Travel & Leisure. This city at sea is a luxurious wonder with impressive designs and top class amenities. It houses more than a dozen lounges and bars in addition to 10 restaurants. In fact, you can even “grill with the chef” on the top deck lawn.

Make Note of the Port Changes

There have been some recent law changes in Jamaica. But not to worry, the cruise itinerary has been change to accommodate a more lifestyle friendly route to ensure you can continue to be nude if so desired.

Instead of stops in Cozumel, Mexico & Falmouth, Jamaica, the cruise ship will visit the beautiful island of the Dominican Republic.

Valentine’s Day Swinger Cruise Special

New Stops

Now with stops in Casa De Campo and Samana, lifestylers can truly enjoy all the wonders of a Caribbean vacation with white sandy beaches, cool azure waters and warm Caribbean nights.

What Are You Waiting For?

This is your chance to travel aboard the world’s top cruise ship on a historic lifestyle adventure and connect with others in the lifestyle — all as part of a special, limited time offer.

Want To See Who Is Going On the Cruise?

Log in to SwingLifeStyle and see “Who’s On board” by cabin using the exclusive Bliss Cruise Couple Finder. After log in, look for the “View All Attendees” link at the top of the screen.

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How to Start Swinging with your Partner

Interested in knowing more about swinging and the swingers lifestyle? Find out about the different types of couple swinging and everything else that you should know about how to start swinging  with your partner.

How to start swinging

Do couples actually swing in real life? Why do couples swing in the first place?

As complex as our anatomical set up and mind, our nature, characteristics, lifestyle and social behaviors are unique phenomena too.

We have an insatiable appetite for at least one thing in life, be it food or intimacy, as examples.

Leaving food on the table, we stray into a familiar territory to take a dig on an act of physical intimacy. Intimacy is a term stretched to every direction and now it’s slanting towards swingers and couples that want to start swinging.

Swinging is a non-monogamous activity of physical intimacy treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple. It has a recreational perspective. Swingers indulge in intimate acts with someone other than one’s spouse/primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that person.

Swingers have been thriving since the beginning of recorded time. In the era of flower power, swinging was a very “in-thing” and among the most popular “culture”. It has had different social standings through time, of course! The phenomenon of swinging may be seen as part of the revolution of recent decades.

Swinging is like a sport for people who believe physical attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple.

Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in carnal activities with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. The most common method is an adult male and female couple, meeting other pairs for lovemaking and physical intimacy, and sometimes ongoing intimate relationships. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome.

How to start swinging – The different types of swinging couples

During these events, swingers acknowledge lovemaking as a game and participants as team-mates. There are few ground rules, but none etched in stone. The prominent carnal activities, but definitely not limited to, are several to mention, but a few of the most popular ones include:

Exhibitionism

It is the form of pleasure which involves making out with a partner while being watched by at least one other person.

Voyeurism

Watching others doing or performing the big bang. It is acceptable in the group event, but not in private areas.

Soft Swap

It involves kissing and stroking and the basics in blowing a guy or tickling a girl down south, with multiple partners. This can be indulged during the threesome, group romp, or while swapping partners.

Peak Swap

This is to have penetrative physical sex with someone other than one’s partner. The idea is almost the definition of swinging, but not necessarily the same.

Group Game

This term signifies the activities involving multiple players in the same lay-out. It usually defines a group of four or more people interacting physically. The most common is two couples, although it can be any gender of four or more people.

Ménage a Trios

Also known as threesomes, this is one of the most common methods of starting in the swinging lifestyle for beginners. A lot of couples will carry on with threesomes long after they become an integral part in swinging. In this, all three involved people interact with each other in bed.

Extreme Measures

These include things such as spanking, bondage, and water sports. The majority of these are very uncommon at most swingers’ parties unless the hosts have chosen a theme for the night, in which case you will be notified well before the night of the party.

Bi-Factor

People of the same gender interacting with each other sexually. This is much more common between women than men, but it doesn’t mean every woman will indulge in it. Bisexuality between men is extremely rare in the swinging community, and is usually frowned upon if not organized prior, and is usually preferred in a separate area.

Now that you know how to start swinging and also the different types of swinging, click here to continue reading about the rules of swinging.

The 10 Rules of Swinging

Rules of Swinging

What should you know about swinging before you try to swing with your partner? Here are the ten most important rules that every swinger couple should know and follow to make sure you have a good time while swapping partners.

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Like any other human activity, swinging also has its pros and cons. A few basic laid down principles can make swinging fun and foul-free, every time.

1. One goes, both go

Come as a couple and leave as one. It is not preferable if one goes while the other lags behind. Always go hand in hand without leaving your partner behind. Swinging is safer and easier if both partners are comfortable indulging in it. It is a team game. Not a solo affair.

2. Punctuality 

Arriving at the correct time applies here as well. Turning up late at a party is a turn-off. By the time you’re in, the night would be in full swing. You’d only end up making people who are already in the act feel awkward. You won’t know where to fit in too. Inform the host beforehand if you are going to be late. Or you may not be invited again.

3. Courtesy

The lifestyle of the swingers isn’t a piece of cake. Sometimes it is complex and complicated with lots of insecurities and uncertainties. Courtesy is the key to ease up. Behave with people just like you would like them to behave towards you. Be sensible, thoughtful and understanding.

4. Reply to Invitations

Even if you don’t wish to attend, answer to all invitations. It is very annoying for a host if they don’t know how many people are going to turn up. Reply by phone or mail and express your gratitude for the invitation.

5. Gift for the Host

Don’t go to a party empty-handed. Ask the host about what you could get for them. Get something racy or simple for the hosts every time you attend a swingers’ party. See, it’s just like a normal party, isn’t it?

6. The Right Attire

Wear clothes that are practical and will be comfortable for you as the night progresses. Carrying a robe or a negligee is a good idea. Take only as much cash as you require. Keep your bling, jewelry and other valuables to the bare minimum. Losing them will be headache to you and an embarrassment to the hosts.

7. Health and Hygiene

Oral hygiene is a basic necessity for everyone. Bad breath or body odor is a big turn-off for your potential partners. Shower and groom well before you leave for the party. Good cologne, perfumes or body sprays will give you the edge in the environment. The best way to enjoy the party is by freshening up as you reach there.

8. Enjoy Yourself 

The whole idea is to have fun and enjoy your time there, so participate in activities that make you feel comfortable. Don’t let anyone pressurize you to do something you don’t like. This may be the most important one. Approach every activity with an open mind and positive attitude. Act out your fantasies, and enjoy yourself.

9. The Right to say ‘NO’

This is the fundamental etiquette in swinging, the right to say ‘no’. It is simple and straightforward, and polite to say ‘no, thank you’. Explanations and alibis aren’t required as these may cause embarrassment and hurt you. You shouldn’t be afraid to decline an invitation. It is the only way to avoid doing something you might regret afterwards. And that might just create more ill-feelings and embarrassment.

10. Friendliness

Be a friend to all, even if you don’t want to extend the night or don’t have any interest in getting physical with someone. You may catch a vibe by being nice with the others in the community. They may put you across to people who you may be interested in.

Swinging can be every bit as invigorating, exciting and fulfilling as you can ever imagine. It opens a window to explore your favorite fantasies in safe mode. You and your partner can work out in private, and yet you can enjoy another couple or get a group swing in just one evening.

Meeting new interesting people and making bold friends are potential side-effects of swinging. Swinging also has the common positive effect of enhancing your relationship and personal life to a great extent. The positive feeling about yourself, your mate, and your relationship is the most important factor while swinging.