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Swinger Club Map Voted 3rd @ European Swinger Lifestyle Awards 2015

We are proud to announce that Swinger Club Map was voted 3rd place at Swinger Lifestyle Awards 2015.

Our project was competing at the category “Best Newcomer of the year 2015“. We had to compete with very established projects like “Spicy Match” – a swinger social network with thousands of daily active swinger couples.

Thanks to all the people who gave us their vote!

How To Please A Women - Cure Premature Ejaculation & Last Longer In Bed

Do you have a “premature ejaculation” problem?

premature ejaculation problemLast Friday we had an interesting discussion at the swinger club. We were talking about how many man have the “premature ejaculation” problem. This can be a bit of a pain in the ass … if you are into swinging where you need to please at least two women per night.

So as the discussion went on we discover how Nick from that couple we meet (and fuck) every now and then … how he solved the same problem. And I can tell you he REALLY solved his problem good. He is now one of the longer lasting studs I have met (and fucked with).

He was explaining that he had serious issues with premature ejaculation but he came across this guide that explained him how to completely cure this problem. Not only he does not have this problem anymore … but he is now one of the best lovers I ever had (besides my Hubby, of course). 

How to last longer in bed?

So I asked to send me the link to this Cure premature ejaculation guide because I would post it here so you guys can read it too.  :)  So if any of you guys have the same problem – grab your chance here and get rid of this. As a women I will tell you that this is really important. We like to be fucked hard and if you can’t last more than 5 min … well … that’s a shame. Especially if you are in the swinging lifestyle. 

Good luck. (And if any of you guys get over that problem completely … give me a shout.) 

Christine, Swinger Club Map

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SHOULD YOU TRICK YOUR WIFE INTO GOING TO A SWINGERS CLUB?

Going to a swingers club with your wife? Is this an event you have been planning for months, perhaps even years? For your twelfth wedding anniversary, which is quickly approaching, you promised your bride a very special evening out that she will long remember. You were married not long after she graduated high school and you and your wife have been a couple for 14 years now. She had a very religious upbringing and has only been with one single man in her life — you. You and your wife have a great home and two adorable children.

As the years have passed you believe that sex between you and your wife has grown stale and unexciting…almost predicable. To add a little bit of spice to your life, maybe lately you have been spending time online for hours at a time looking at adult sites and fantasizing. It doesn’t take long before you discover the world of swinging and you are absolutely enthralled by it. Sexual encounters without commitments — how great is that? It certainly sounds like a better option than cheating and dealing with a costly divorce, which could cost you so much that you have worked for in life.

                                    The real question is:

Can you stand the thought of seeing the wife you love — the mother of your children — performing oral sex or maybe even going all the way right in front of you with full intercourse? You consider your feelings to see if it’s something you could really handle. You surprise yourself by discovering that the thought doesn’t bother you in the least. In fact, it totally turns you on! Not only do you want to see her with another man, but you really desire to see her with another woman too.

You spend several months looking on swingers websites studying the swingers lifestyle and then you get up the nerve to ask your wife about what she thinks about the two of you visiting a swingers club. You brace yourself for her reply as she merely stares at you blankly and says, “No way! That’s gross! You’re sick!”

That is what she said eight months ago. But you know your wife all too well. You know that even though she is against the idea, that once she tries it, she is likely to really like it. The only thing you need to do is to figure out how to get her to a swingers club without her knowing where the two of you are going. Your anniversary, it just so happens, is a perfect excuse to take her out on a date and then divert to a swingers club.

Your wife thinks you are taking her to a romantic evening out, perhaps a nice dinner somewhere and then a little dancing. You even bought her a beautiful new dress for your special evening out.

You both have dinner together and then all is revealed when you take her to the club. Your wife is very excited at first because she thinks it’s just a great dance club. After just a few minutes though, your wife notices a few of the female dancers stripping their clothes off. In fact, quite a few of them are stripping down. You and your wife overhear someone say that there is a jacuzzi in the back of the club. Many exciting images are happening all around you and your wife; things neither of you have ever seen in person before. You see two women making out. Some of the women are completely naked while others are scantily dressed. “What kind of club have you brought me to?” your wife asks, with a look of confusion. You reply that it’s a swingers club and that you wanted to surprise her by bringing her here. Her look of confusion changes to one of disgust. “Take me home right now!” she demands. “You’re sleeping on the couch tonight, pal!”

It isn’t a very good idea to try to trick your wife into going to a swingers club with you. In fact, doing so is very deceiving and can lead to a lot of distrust in the future. Remember what Mahoney did to his superior officers in Police Academy by tricking them into going to the Blue Oyster Bar? You don’t want that kind of reaction. Couples who are successful swingers must be able to trust each other completely and be able to communicate openly about anything and everything. If you attempt to trick your partner into joining the swingers lifestyle without her approval, it could backfire tragically on you, putting an end to your swinging ambitions forever.

There are many husbands who have the idea that just because they have had a discussion with their wives about the possibility of having an extra person join them in the bedroom that they have essentially been given the green light to make it happen. Men, make sure your wife approves 100 percent before you bring home “Dave,” “Ricky,” or even “Sally” to have some adult fun with you and your wife. Be sure she knows it wasn’t just some fantasy you were sharing with her. Be sure she knows you really mean it. There really should never be any “surprises” with this type of thing. You should always involve your wife with the planning and coordination of bringing any extra partners into yours and your wife’s sex lives.
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VALENTINE’S DAY SWINGER CRUISE SPECIAL

VALENTINE’S DAY SWINGER

 

Bliss Cruise is offering a savings up to $300 per couple on select cabins* through Valentine’s Day.

Nothing says I love you like the gift of a swinger cruise package for your special someone aboard one of the World’s Best Cruise Ship, Celebrity Silhouette, November 29 – December 6, 2015. The 5 Star Luxury cruise ship takeover is in fact clothing optional. What’s more? Great features such as fine dining, stunning views and the fact that it is the only swinger cruise in 2015.

Call Topless Travel today for details — this offer will not last: 877-907-9464.

#1 Rated Cruise Ship

The Celebrity Silhouette was recently voted the #1 Top Mega Ship in the world by Travel & Leisure. This city at sea is a luxurious wonder with impressive designs and top class amenities. It houses more than a dozen lounges and bars in addition to 10 restaurants. In fact, you can even “grill with the chef” on the top deck lawn.

Make Note of the Port Changes

There have been some recent law changes in Jamaica. But not to worry, the cruise itinerary has been change to accommodate a more lifestyle friendly route to ensure you can continue to be nude if so desired.

Instead of stops in Cozumel, Mexico & Falmouth, Jamaica, the cruise ship will visit the beautiful island of the Dominican Republic.

Valentine’s Day Swinger Cruise Special

New Stops

Now with stops in Casa De Campo and Samana, lifestylers can truly enjoy all the wonders of a Caribbean vacation with white sandy beaches, cool azure waters and warm Caribbean nights.

What Are You Waiting For?

This is your chance to travel aboard the world’s top cruise ship on a historic lifestyle adventure and connect with others in the lifestyle — all as part of a special, limited time offer.

Want To See Who Is Going On the Cruise?

Log in to SwingLifeStyle and see “Who’s On board” by cabin using the exclusive Bliss Cruise Couple Finder. After log in, look for the “View All Attendees” link at the top of the screen.

Source: by  | January 15, 2015

Posh orgies are the hottest new trend

The rise of the middle class swinger! Posh orgies are the hottest new trend as professional couples flock to VIP-style sex parties

  • – Private event with 60 couples took place in £30million London townhouse 
  • – Ibiza parties have a Human Jigsaw room where guests pile on a giant bed
  • – Event organisers appear on Channel 4 documentary Sex Party Secrets

Every weekend around the UK, in spacious private houses and mansions, champagne flows, music throbs and guests are bathed in soft gentle light.

These aren’t A-list events but the latest generation of ‘posh orgies’, according to a new Channel 4 documentary, Sex Party Secrets airing tonight.

Welcome to the world of the sexual elite where the proclivities detailed in erotic novels like Fifty Shades Of Grey aren’t just the stuff of fiction.

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A new generation of orgies is springing up in which young, professional couples join invite-only sex events.

Forget tales of wife-swapping in Suburbia, these bashes are for young, attractive and professional couples seeking extra thrills in a sophisticated setting.

They take place in expensive townhouses, sprawling West Country mansions or even on yachts or villas in Ibiza.

Forget Christian Grey’s red room of pain, at Pure Pleasure Parties in Spain’s clubbing capital, there’s a ‘human jigsaw room’, consisting of a ‘giant bed where it’s all happening’, says organizer Louise.

Guests must pass a strict vetting procedure and are largely, young, professional with impeccable grooming habits – if there is a dress code it would involve having Brazilian bikini waxes.

Chris Reynolds Gordon runs Heaven Circle, which organises exclusive orgies where the guest list is as strict as any private members club.

While thousands of people apply to join there are only 90 members.

He says: ‘It’s becoming way more open, I don’t want to use the word trendy, but it’s quite the thing to do at the moment.’

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Sexual safety is paramount at these events and condoms – in various sizes – are laid on for guests.

You say to your friends, by the way me and my girlfriend went off and did that. They will probably say “oh that’s weird we do the same thing”‘

Asked why he started creating his own events he says, ‘I’ve been to other parties and I thought I can do better than this.’

He admits he didn’t want middle aged people people at his parties.

‘We’ve had actors, actresses, models to nurses lawyers, teachers, old school mates even.’

One event featured in the programme is held in a £30million London townhouse complete with a hot tub and stuccoed 18th-century stone staircase.

Anonymous party-goers talking to the camera wear Venetian masks but even they can’t disguise the women’s cut glass accents and model cheekbones.

The men show off muscled torsos, shaved chests and hipster haircuts.

Another organiser Jon Blue looks like a fashion designer with his bleached hair, dapper headgear and waspish sense of humour.

Instead he runs invite-only orgies, set in beautiful country piles where clinches take place in four-poster beds and on vast manicured lawns.

He says: ‘Here we have VIP room where we have the lovely food and champagne for people who have paid a little extra.’

‘This is someone’s home which is obviously different to hiring a venue like a club because you have to have a little more respect.’

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Increasing numbers of couples are spicing up their sex lives at controlled events filled with people like them.

It’s becoming way more open, I don’t want to use the word trendy, but it’s quite the thing to do at the moment. Chris Reynolds Gordon

‘They’re lovely owners, very chilled and enjoying the whole spectacle.’

‘The idea is that we will have lots of flamboyant spectacle creatures, the theme is mythology, so we’re going to have a mermaid in the pool and a unicorn.’

‘Basically we open up the house and the play rooms are open and hopefully by that stage we’ve got their juices flowing and their passion built up and there’s a collective arousal.’

Mr Blue’s goal is to create an entirely new, exotic environment in which to spice up their sex lives either with each other or a variety of partners.

‘Most people don’t have to have sex on a bed, you could have it on a couch, the corner of a couch, there’s plenty of bed space. But the idea of my parties is it’s more a beautiful party, where there’s sex possible.’

Meanwhile Pure Pleasure Parties take the old fashioned orgy into the rarified environment of private villas and yachts in Ibiza.

The events are so popular they’re attended by up to 250 people.

Louise, the tanned, up-front woman behind the adults-only business says, ‘We have parties in yachts as well as villa parties and mansion parties. For the ones in Ibiza you have a 15-strong dance show.

‘The things that are different about my parties are that they really are for the elite. The phones are taken off people on the door. There is no chance of being filmed at these parties whatever your position you are safe and secure.’

She says: ‘We are not born to be with one partner for all our life. Come to a party, live out your fantasies together or let your guy go off and do what a man needs to do.’

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Dressing up in strappy heels, sexy underwear with trimmed and waxed bikini lines is de rigeur at these events.

Sandy and Poppy, first timers at a Heaven Circle, described the thrill of being accepted to the select group as being ‘awesome’.

On arrival at the event’s chic six-bedroom town house, the pair sipped Champagne and watched ‘an orgy with five couples all on the same bed all having sex in several different positions.’

Another married couple Charlotte and Frank are sex party regulars.

She says: ‘My husband likes to see me having fun with other men.’

Frank adds: ‘I just get extremely turned on because I know what the other chap is feeling. When we come back afterwards we are just buzzing and bouncing off the walls from the evening that’s just happened.’

‘On the way back from a party we usually have to stop on route and get in the back of the car and have some fun. We have sex again on the way home.’

Open relationships – Why people engage in them and why they are healthy

Some people cannot fathom the reasons why people would be a part of an open relationships, it just seem to be a horrible idea, but for others, and for those who are actively participating in an open relationship, it’s extremely healthy. Many people believe that being with more than one partner, or being committed to more than one person is impossible; but, if a couple is open to the idea and both parties are on board from the start, for the most part, such a relationship can work. In fact, couples that are in open relationships have been together for more time than most traditional couples, and seem to be much happier as well. These are some reasons open relationships work, and some healthy habits they can teach us.

Open Communications

With an open relationship, couples allow one another to have different partners. Of course you have to define the parameters of such a relationship and both should agree on what “open” really means. Couples involved in an open relationship are more likely to communicate better, as they are not afraid of being caught. This helps build trust and stability, and helps bring the couple closer together. It eliminates the need to hide things from one another, not only in their sex lives, but in all areas of their lives.

Eliminates Fighting

Another reason open relationships make things better is they let the couple let their walls down. Since they are so open with one another, and share things with each other, there is far less fighting. This goes for everything; whether it is work, finances, family, or any other area that would be stressful for most couples, those who are in an open relationship find it easier to avoid confrontation, and to talk things out. This helps bring them closer, and it also helps each individual in the relationship get what they want out of the relationship.

gangbangYou Set the Rules

With open relationships, each couple is going to have rules in place. Some couples simply include no kissing as a part of the open relationship; with other couples, as long as discretion is present, and both partners are honest with one another, they can have sex with anyone (as long as the other partner approves). You have to set the rules early on in the relationship, and determine what “open” means. That way, you avoid arguments, and avoid one partner feeling betrayed, or feeling as if they were not fully aware of what the other was doing.

Both Partners are Happy
In open relationships, both partners are going to be happy; both sexually, as well as emotionally happy. In many instances, people stay together because of kids, because they have been together for so long, or for convenience. But, in an open relationship, both parties are actually happy. If you love your partner, yet feel they can’t please you sexually, you can go elsewhere for that connection, as long as both parties are okay with it. And, for an emotional connection, you have that partner, the person you love, and can talk to them. This fulfills both the sexual, as well as the emotional connection that everyone wants to feel. In fact, many couples who are in open relationships feel much happier, they feel they are fulfilled, are closer to one another, and do not have that jealousy factor that other couples experience.

Expression and Eliminates Jealousy

You can express yourself, and choose different partners in an open relationship. Since both partners know what is going on and full discretion is in place, the jealousy that would be felt, or the feeling of being betrayed is no longer present, since both individuals in the relationship, have agreed to the terms that are laid out in their open relationship.

Whether you choose to be in an open relationship for a period of time (decide how long in advance), or choose to do so indefinitely, there are many benefits. So, whether you believe in this concept or not, and whether you agree with it or not, couples who are in open relationships, tend to get along better, tend to be happier, and tend to have a much healthier relationship than those who are stuck in a monogamous relationship.

(source of text: http://www.swingerlifestyle.com)

Christians set up SWINGERS network to spread faith

DEVOUT Christians have set up a SWINGERS network as a way to introduce others to faith – while indulging in extra-marital sex.

By: Dion Dassanayake
Published: Thu, September 25, 2014

Cristy and Dean Parave regularly enjoy swapping partners with other couples as they try to spread the word of God to those who are not religious.

The fitness fanatics said they do not think they are committing adultery and that the Almighty would not be angry with having sex outside of marriage.

Bisexual mum-of-three Mrs Parave studies the Bible with her husband of seven years but gets into bed with other people at her partner’s consent.

She said: “I don’t think God would be mad at what we are doing – at first I was conflicted but the more we looked at it the more it makes sense to us. Dean and I are both in agreement with this lifestyle, so we’re not committing adultery.”

“God put people on the earth to breed and enjoy each other – I feel God is always with me and he has put us here for a reason.”  

The couple, who met on a dating website eight years ago, set up FitnessSwingers.com from their home in Florida, America.

The exercise-mad pair, who both compete in bodybuilding competitions, were introduced to the world of swinging after a chance meeting in a supermarket.  A couple approached them and asked if they were swingers and she thought they meant “swing dancing”.

After researching it at home the pair, who have sex twice a day, started to dabble in swapping partners. Mrs Parave said: “I had a very sexually adventurous friend who knew about swinging. I asked her if she wanted to try with Dean and I.” Dean didn’t know what was happening, he thought it was a trick and I was trying to catch him out.”

The couple set up their swinging website two years ago and travel around America meeting people and swapping partners. Mrs Parave, who has three children from a former marriage, said her and her husband’s parents know about their extra-marital sex and are happy for them.

Fitness instructor Mr Parave was an alcoholic and drug addict before finding Jesus following a drink-drive arrest. He said: “I turned my life around, began bodybuilding and now I try to live pure. God has put me here to spread his word and our lifestyle community is a great place to do it. You can’t get closer to someone than having sex with them.”

(source of text: http://theswingershub.com/swingers-news)

Why couples should attend a swinger club

Positive aspects of attending a swinger club as a couple

Swinging is a social exchange that entails sexual exchanges. It’s important to understand that these sexual encounters do not mean infidelity in any way.

swinger clubAdmittedly, things can get a bit dull after years and months of being in a sexually monogamous relationship. A good solution most couples explore is swinging as a method to enliven their shared lives. These couples begin to experiment with a swinging lifestyle and realize that this allows them to inject sexual variety and stir otherwise stagnant bedroom experiences up.

For some couples that dabble in swinging, the thought of seeing and sharing their partner in front of strangers can be highly arousing and sexually freeing. However, after a few trysts with others, couples are instead likely to enjoy love-making with each other more than before. They would also experience more passion in their sex life.

How is this possible? How does this work?

One of the prime causes of infidelity is bedroom boredom. It’s natural for this to happen when two people have been in a monogamous relationship for a long time. The chief complaint is love-making becoming routine and extremely predicable. Sometimes, so much so, that both parties go through the sexual process on auto-mode. Being in this state could be detrimental to the love life.

When the relationship progresses to this stage, it’s only a matter of time before you or your spouse begin to look elsewhere to feel passionate and alive again. This inevitably leads to external affairs, which honestly, is not the ideal solution.

Swinging would otherwise, offer a brief release to sexual stagnation and does not carry the stress of having an affair. It also removes the fear of being found out. As both parties are on the same page, there will be no household drama or accusations over cheating. Occasional swinging jaunts with an outsider can actually keep the marital couple together. Some couples decide to join a rating website, while others like the public approach and attend a local swingers club.This works by helping them to rediscover and relook at the delights of their primary partner, framed in a different context from where they primarily started off from.

(Source of text, credit to: http://www.swingerlifestyle.com)

Swinger Cruise Croatia

Swinger Cruise Croatia

A new, interesting project is about to see the light of the day – Swinger Cruise Croatia. A Croatian based adult travel agency will offer deluxe cruise ship experience with up to 20 couples on board. The cruise ships they offer are luxurious and the cabins are fantastic.

They will also offer Swinger Sailing Boat experience. With 5 to 10 yachts forming a “swinger fleet” this adventures concept might be the begging of a new era of swingers tourism. Flexibility, adventure and fun! All discreetly warped up in a package that contains not only a lot of swinging fun, but also endless possibilities to explore the wonderful Adriatic sea.

Their website (www.swingercruisecroatia.com) is currently under construction but stay tuned for more information here on Swinger Club Map.